The Stonehaven
Assisted Living & Memory Care · Tulsa, OK

The Stonehaven

Assisted Living & Memory Care · Tulsa, OK

Overview of The Stonehaven

Nestled in the vibrant community of Tulsa, Oklahoma, The Stonehaven elevates the concept of assisted living homes by offering personalized care within a lifestyle of independence and wellness. Residents enjoy a curated array of amenities such as a full-service salon, theater, and bistro. In addition, a licensed nurse conducts a thorough personal assessment to develop tailored care plans, ensuring each individual receives the right amount of discreet support.

Outdoor patios and communal living spaces at The Stonehaven provide residents with opportunities to socialize and form meaningful relationships. The assisted living homes here offer residents a variety of programs focused on physical, social, intellectual, and spiritual well-being. From transportation to appointments to weekly housekeeping, The Stonehaven’s comprehensive service list aims to meet every need while fostering an environment of comfort and dignity.

By The Numbers

Community insights.

Walk Score Info Somewhat walkable. Some errands can be accomplished on foot, with a mix of nearby amenities. Rank #28 / 134Walk Score — State benchmarked This assisted living community is ranked 28th out of 134 assisted living communities we track in Oklahoma for walk score. Shows how walkable this facility's neighborhood is compared to the average walk score across Oklahoma facilities. Higher scores benefit residents, families, and staff. Communities with the same value for a metric share the same rank. Rankings compare like with like: every assisted living community we track in Oklahoma that reports data for that category. Assisted living communities without available data are excluded, so the pool size varies from metric to metric.
58 / 100

About This Community

Pricing & Financial Information

Starting Price
$4,730/Month

Staffing & Medical

1 service
24-Hour StaffListed as: 24/7 associate support

Additional Services

5 services
Hobby and Reading Assistance
Daily Routine Support
Shared Meals with Companion
Errands & ShoppingListed as: Errand running and shopping assistance
Transportation Services

Additional Policies & Features

Pets Allowed

Amenities & Lifestyle

Courtyard
Activities
Evening Strolls
Card Games
Bingo
Outdoor Summer Events
Walks and Fitness Activities

Room Accommodations

Building Type2-story
Studio Floor plans as listed by the community: Cedar (390–442 sq ft) · Willow (340–474 sq ft) · Redbud (371–460 sq ft) Floor plans: Cedar, Willow, Redbud 340–474 sq ft
1 Bedroom Floor plans as listed by the community: Hickory (498–566 sq ft) · Pecan (475–578 sq ft) · Maple (505–557 sq ft) · Elm (660–791 sq ft) Floor plans: Hickory, Pecan, Maple, Elm 475–791 sq ft
2 Bedroom Floor plans as listed by the community: Oak (642–828 sq ft) · Birch (777–909 sq ft) Floor plans: Oak, Birch 642–909 sq ft
Private Room Floor plans as listed by the community: Suite (254–335 sq ft) · Deluxe Suite (671 sq ft) Floor plans: Deluxe Suite 254–671 sq ft
Semi-Private / Shared Room Floor plans: Neighbor Suite 249–337 sq ft

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Living Spaces & Floor Plans for The Stonehaven

1 Bedroom
1 Bedroom
Studio
2 bedroom
2 bedroom

Places of interest near The Stonehaven

Address 10802 E 81St St, Tulsa, OK 74133

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Financial Assistance for
Assisted Living in Oklahoma

The Stonehaven is located in Tulsa, Oklahoma.
Here are the financial assistance programs available to residents in Oklahoma.

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ADvantage Waiver

Oklahoma Medicaid ADvantage

Age 65+ or disabled
General Oklahoma resident, Medicaid- eligible, nursing home-level care need.
Income Limits (2025) ~$2,829/month 300% FBR, individual
Asset Limits $2,000 (individual), $3,000 (couple).
OK

High rural demand; waitlists possible.

Benefits
Personal care (5-7 hours/day) Respite (240 hours/year) Adult day care ($60/day) Home modifications ($1,500 avg.)

Oklahoma Respite Voucher Program

OK Respite Vouchers

Age Caregiver of someone 60+
General Oklahoma resident.
Income Limits ~$2,500/month individual, varies
Asset Limits $40,000 individual
OK

Limited vouchers; rural focus.

Benefits
In-home respite (up to 30 days/year) Adult day care (~$60/day) Facility respite (up to 5 days)

Personal Care Program

Oklahoma Personal Care Program

Age 65+ (or disabled)
General OK resident, Medicaid-eligible, need help with 1+ ADL.
Income Limits (2025) ~$1,255/month (100% FPL, individual); QIT optional.
Asset Limits $2,000 (individual), $3,000 (couple).
OK

No NFLOC required (less stringent than ADvantage); statewide via SoonerCare.

Benefits
Personal care (5-20 hours/week) Bathing Grooming Light housekeeping Meal prep

Older Americans Act (OAA) Services

Oklahoma OAA Services

Age 60+
General OK resident (or spouse of any age); no income/asset limits.
Income Limits (2025) None; donations encouraged for some services.
Asset Limits Not assessed.
OK

11 AAAs; services vary by region (e.g., urban vs. rural).

Benefits
Meals (home-delivered or congregate, ~$5-$7/meal value) Transportation Homemaker services (~4 hours/week) Respite (~5 days/year) Legal aid

Medicare Savings Program (MSP)

Oklahoma Medicare Savings Program

Age 65+ or disabled
General OK resident, Medicare Part A/B.
Income Limits (2025) ~$2,510/month (QMB), ~$3,380/month (SLMB), ~$3,598/month (QI)—individual.
Asset Limits $9,430 (individual), $14,130 (couple).
OK

Three tiers; includes Extra Help for Part D; no waitlist.

Benefits
Covers Part B premiums ($174.70/month) Deductibles ($240/year) Copays (~20%)

VA Aid and Attendance (A&A) and Housebound Benefits

Oklahoma VA Aid and Attendance/Housebound

Age 65+ or disabled veteran/spouse
General OK resident, wartime service, need for ADL help (A&A) or homebound.
Income Limits (2025) Net income < ~$1,984/month (veteran with dependent, A&A); pension offsets income.
Asset Limits ~$155,356 net worth limit
OK

High veteran population; supports rural/urban care needs.

Benefits
Cash (~$1,433-$2,642/month veteran, ~$951-$1,318 spouse) for care costs (e.g., in-home, assisted living)

Senior Farmers’ Market Nutrition Program (SFMNP)

Oklahoma SFMNP

Age 60+
General OK resident, low-income.
Income Limits (2025) ~$2,322/month individual, 185% FPL
Asset Limits Not assessed.
OK

Vouchers (~$50/season) via 11 AAAs; farmers’ market focus.

Benefits
Vouchers (~$50/season) for fresh produce at approved markets

Property Tax Exemption for Seniors

Oklahoma Senior Property Tax Exemption

Age 65+
General OK resident, homeowner, low-income.
Income Limits (2025) ~$25,000/year individual, adjusted annually
Asset Limits Not assessed; home value < $1M.
OK

Exemption up to $1,000 of assessed value; homestead required.

Benefits
Tax reduction (~$100-$200/year avg., varies by county)

Frequently Asked Questions about The Stonehaven

Is The Stonehaven in a walkable area?

The Stonehaven has a walk score of 58. Somewhat walkable. Some errands can be accomplished on foot, with a mix of nearby amenities.

Are pets allowed at The Stonehaven?

Yes, The Stonehaven allows residents to bring their pets.

How much does The Stonehaven cost per month?

Pricing at The Stonehaven starts at $4,730 per month, with rates varying by floorplan and additional care needs.

Are there photos of The Stonehaven?

Yes — there are 6 photos of The Stonehaven in the photo gallery on this page.

What levels of care does The Stonehaven provide?

The Stonehaven offers Assisted Living & Memory Care.

What is the address of The Stonehaven?

The Stonehaven is located at 10802 E 81St St, Tulsa, OK 74133.

What is the phone number of The Stonehaven?

(918) 203-0210 will put you in contact with the team at The Stonehaven.

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