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Setting the benchmark for dementia care, Tilden Memory Care sets an exemplary standard in Alexandria. Renowned for their dedication to providing a personalized and attentive approach, this community stands out with its boutique-style living that fosters a sense of community and engagement. Emphasizing resident safety, the facility employs innovative wearable technology to ensure a secure environment, complemented by a team of highly trained caregivers who bring comfort and companionship to the forefront. Within this haven, residents find themselves enveloped in luxurious rooms adorned with private bathrooms, accompanied by dedicated on-site care staff.
Tilden Memory Care specializes in dementia care, possessing an intimate understanding of the complexities involved. This comprehensive refuge, extending its embrace to families as well, instills trust with its all-inclusive approach. Radiating a neighborly warmth combined with utmost professionalism, Tilden Memory Care stands as a beacon of reassurance and comfort for those seeking specialized dementia care.
Lower than the Virginia average: 85.7%Tilden Memory Care is administrated by Wade Chilcoat.
In Virginia, the Department of Social Services (for assisted living facilities) and the Department of Health (for nursing homes) perform the inspections required to maintain state and federal licensing.
This scorecard compares key inspection, citation, and complaint metrics at this facility against the Virginia state average. Metrics rated ≥15% worse than average are highlighted in red; those ≥15% better are highlighted in green.
Deficiencies
| This Facility | VA Average | vs. VA Avg |
|---|---|---|---|
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Total deficiencies
Formal regulatory issues recorded by inspectors across all inspection types.
| 16 | 32 | This facility has 50% fewer total deficiencies than a typical Virginia assisted living residence (16 vs. VA avg 32).↓ 50% better |
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Deficiencies per year
Average deficiencies per year since 2022.
| 4 | 8 | This facility has 50% fewer deficiencies per year than a typical Virginia assisted living residence (4 vs. VA avg 8).↓ 50% better |
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Deficiencies per inspection
Average deficiencies per inspection.
| 3.2 | 2.3 | This facility has 39% more deficiencies per inspection than a typical Virginia assisted living residence (3.2 vs. VA avg 2.3).↑ 39% worse |
Inspections
| This Facility | VA Average | vs. VA Avg |
|---|---|---|---|
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Total inspections
Combined count of all routine and focused inspections. Excludes complaint investigations.
| 5 | 14 | This facility has 64% fewer total inspections than a typical Virginia assisted living residence (5 vs. VA avg 14).↓ 64% better |
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Inspections with violations
Inspections that uncovered at least one regulatory violation.
| 3 | 9 | This facility has 67% fewer inspections with violations than a typical Virginia assisted living residence (3 vs. VA avg 9).↓ 67% better |
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Inspection violation rate
Percentage of inspections that resulted in at least one violation.
| 60% | 64% | This facility has 4 percentage points lower inspection violation rate than a typical Virginia assisted living residence (60% vs. VA avg 64%).↓ 4% better |
An editor-reviewed summary of the themes and findings across this facility's recent inspection reports.
Housing Options: Private Rooms
Staff to Resident Ratio: 1 Staff : 4 Residents
Building Type: Single-story
Housekeeping Services
Recreational Activities
Wade Chilcoat is the Administrator and Owner of Tilden Memory Care. As a licensed administrator, nursing aide, and Certified Dementia Practitioner, he is deeply involved in daily operations. Wade brings a heartfelt approach to senior care, inspired by cultural respect for elders he experienced abroad. His focus on consistency, transparency, and person-centered care ensures families feel their loved ones are truly supported.
5.9 miles from city center
Estimated distance in miles from Alexandria's city center to Tilden Memory Care's address, calculated via Google Maps.
— 0.48 miles to nearest hospital (Inova Mount Vernon Hospital Pathology)
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Tilden Memory Care is located in Alexandria, Virginia.
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The information below is reported by the Virginia Department of Social Services and Department of Health.
| The Fountains at Washington House |
AL Assisted Living A licensed, long-term care setting for seniors or individuals with disabilities who need help with daily activities — like bathing, dressing, and medication management — but not 24-hour skilled nursing. Offers housing, meals, and around-the-clock support while aiming to maximize resident independence.
NH Nursing Home Licensed facility providing 24/7 skilled nursing care for residents with complex, ongoing medical needs. Staffed by RNs, LPNs, and CNAs. Inspected and star-rated annually by CMS. Accepts Medicare (short-term rehab) and Medicaid (long-term care).
IL Independent Living Lifestyle-focused communities for older adults offering dining, activities, and transportation with minimal personal care. Best for active, independent seniors who want community without medical support. | Alexandria (Alexandria West) | 215
Facility
215
VA AVG
95
Rank
#14 / 371 | No |
66
Facility
66
VA AVG
44
Rank
#77 / 449 | Private Rooms | Victoria Baxter |
32.6%
Facility
32.6%
VA AVG
70.8%
Rank
#290 / 297 | A+ | 5 | 40%
Facility
40%
VA AVG
64.3%
Rank
#87 / 332 | 1
Facility
1
VA AVG
7
Rank
#67 / 332 | 6
Facility
6
VA AVG
32
Rank
#108 / 332 | 1.2
Facility
1.2
VA AVG
2.3
Rank
#138 / 332 |
| Benchmark at Alexandria |
AL Assisted Living A licensed, long-term care setting for seniors or individuals with disabilities who need help with daily activities — like bathing, dressing, and medication management — but not 24-hour skilled nursing. Offers housing, meals, and around-the-clock support while aiming to maximize resident independence.
MC Memory Care Secured, specialized care for people living with Alzheimer's or dementia. Staff trained in cognitive impairment, with higher staff-to-resident ratios and an environment designed to reduce confusion and wandering risk.
RC Respite Care Short-term temporary care — days to weeks — to give family caregivers a break. Full care provided during the stay. Often used after hospitalization or to trial a facility before a permanent placement decision. | Alexandria (Alexandria West) | 134
Facility
134
VA AVG
95
Rank
#64 / 371 | No |
81
Facility
81
VA AVG
44
Rank
#44 / 449 | Private Rooms | Carol L. Tarlowoh |
47.8%
Facility
47.8%
VA AVG
70.8%
Rank
#259 / 297 | C | 8 | 87.5%
Facility
87.5%
VA AVG
64.3%
Rank
#295 / 332 | 2
Facility
2
VA AVG
7
Rank
#110 / 332 | 19
Facility
19
VA AVG
32
Rank
#190 / 332 | 2.4
Facility
2.4
VA AVG
2.3
Rank
#235 / 332 |
| Sunrise of Alexandria |
AL Assisted Living A licensed, long-term care setting for seniors or individuals with disabilities who need help with daily activities — like bathing, dressing, and medication management — but not 24-hour skilled nursing. Offers housing, meals, and around-the-clock support while aiming to maximize resident independence.
HC Home Care Professional care delivered in the person's own home — from companionship and errands to skilled nursing and therapy. Allows seniors to age in place. Medicare covers skilled home health when medically necessary.
MC Memory Care Secured, specialized care for people living with Alzheimer's or dementia. Staff trained in cognitive impairment, with higher staff-to-resident ratios and an environment designed to reduce confusion and wandering risk. | Alexandria (Seminary Hill) | 110
Facility
110
VA AVG
95
Rank
#111 / 371 | Yes |
62
Facility
62
VA AVG
44
Rank
#98 / 449 | Private Rooms | Arin Burrell-Duru |
65.5%
Facility
65.5%
VA AVG
70.8%
Rank
#195 / 297 | A- | 8 | 25%
Facility
25%
VA AVG
64.3%
Rank
#47 / 332 | 3
Facility
3
VA AVG
7
Rank
#149 / 332 | 4
Facility
4
VA AVG
32
Rank
#95 / 332 | 0.5
Facility
0.5
VA AVG
2.3
Rank
#90 / 332 |
| Silverado Alexandria Memory Care Community |
AL Assisted Living A licensed, long-term care setting for seniors or individuals with disabilities who need help with daily activities — like bathing, dressing, and medication management — but not 24-hour skilled nursing. Offers housing, meals, and around-the-clock support while aiming to maximize resident independence.
MC Memory Care Secured, specialized care for people living with Alzheimer's or dementia. Staff trained in cognitive impairment, with higher staff-to-resident ratios and an environment designed to reduce confusion and wandering risk.
RC Respite Care Short-term temporary care — days to weeks — to give family caregivers a break. Full care provided during the stay. Often used after hospitalization or to trial a facility before a permanent placement decision. | Alexandria (Rosemont) | 88
Facility
88
VA AVG
95
Rank
#191 / 371 | Yes |
21
Facility
21
VA AVG
44
Rank
#353 / 449 | Private Rooms | Ms Sabrina Pegross |
75.0%
Facility
75.0%
VA AVG
70.8%
Rank
#135 / 297 | - | 5 | 40%
Facility
40%
VA AVG
64.3%
Rank
#87 / 332 | 0
Facility
0
VA AVG
7
Rank
#1 / 332 | 3
Facility
3
VA AVG
32
Rank
#85 / 332 | 0.6
Facility
0.6
VA AVG
2.3
Rank
#97 / 332 |
| Tilden Memory Care |
AL Assisted Living A licensed, long-term care setting for seniors or individuals with disabilities who need help with daily activities — like bathing, dressing, and medication management — but not 24-hour skilled nursing. Offers housing, meals, and around-the-clock support while aiming to maximize resident independence.
MC Memory Care Secured, specialized care for people living with Alzheimer's or dementia. Staff trained in cognitive impairment, with higher staff-to-resident ratios and an environment designed to reduce confusion and wandering risk.
RC Respite Care Short-term temporary care — days to weeks — to give family caregivers a break. Full care provided during the stay. Often used after hospitalization or to trial a facility before a permanent placement decision. | Alexandria | 8
Facility
8
VA AVG
95
Rank
#352 / 371 | No |
66
Facility
66
VA AVG
44
Rank
#77 / 449 | Private Rooms | Wade Chilcoat |
62.5%
Facility
62.5%
VA AVG
70.8%
Rank
#206 / 297 | - | 5 | 60%
Facility
60%
VA AVG
64.3%
Rank
#183 / 332 | 0
Facility
0
VA AVG
7
Rank
#1 / 332 | 16
Facility
16
VA AVG
32
Rank
#173 / 332 | 3.2
Facility
3.2
VA AVG
2.3
Rank
#270 / 332 |
Tilden Memory Care has a walk score of 66. Moderately walkable. Some errands can be accomplished on foot, with a mix of nearby amenities.
According to VA state health department records, Tilden Memory Care's license expires on June 30, 2026.
Tilden Memory Care's occupancy is 63%.
Wade Chilcoat is the administrator of Tilden Memory Care.
Tilden Memory Care has 8 beds.
Tilden Memory Care has had 5 recently reported deficiencies.
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