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Tilden Memory Care
Setting the benchmark for dementia care, Tilden Memory Care sets an exemplary standard in Alexandria. Renowned for their dedication to providing a personalized and attentive approach, this community stands out with its boutique-style living that fosters a sense of community and engagement. Emphasizing resident safety, the facility employs innovative wearable technology to ensure a secure environment, complemented by a team of highly trained caregivers who bring comfort and companionship to the forefront. Within this haven, residents find themselves enveloped in luxurious rooms adorned with private bathrooms, accompanied by dedicated on-site care staff.
Tilden Memory Care specializes in dementia care, possessing an intimate understanding of the complexities involved. This comprehensive refuge, extending its embrace to families as well, instills trust with its all-inclusive approach. Radiating a neighborly warmth combined with utmost professionalism, Tilden Memory Care stands as a beacon of reassurance and comfort for those seeking specialized dementia care.
Community insights.
About this community
Tilden Memory Care is administered by Wade Chilcoat.
This facility provides Dining Services.
Inspection History
In Virginia, the Department of Social Services (for assisted living facilities) and the Department of Health (for nursing homes) perform the inspections required to maintain state and federal licensing.
ALM Inspection Grade
9 points below the Virginia average for state-licensed facilities (83/100)
Category breakdown
Violations
Concern
3.4 violations per inspection (24 in 7 inspections) · 2× more than the typical state-licensed VA facility (median: 1.8)
Finding Frequency
Typical
71% of inspections found a violation · 24% more than the typical state-licensed VA facility (median: 58%)
Complaints
Strong
0 complaints · better than the typical state-licensed VA facility (median: 3)
Inspection Scorecard
This scorecard compares key inspection, violation, and complaint metrics at this facility against the Virginia state average. Metrics rated ≥15% worse than average are highlighted in red; those ≥15% better are highlighted in green.
• Violations per inspection (48% above)
• Inspection violation rate (22% above) 3 Better Metrics better than Virginia average:
• Total violations (35% below)
• Inspections with violations (44% below)
• Total complaints (100% below)
Violations
| This Facility | VA Average | vs. VA Avg |
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Total violations
| 24 | 37.0 | This facility has 35% fewer total violations than a typical Virginia assisted living residence (24 vs. VA avg 37).↓ 35% better |
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Violations per inspection
| 3.4 | 2.3 | This facility has 48% more violations per inspection than a typical Virginia assisted living residence (3.4 vs. VA avg 2.3).↑ 48% worse |
Inspections
| This Facility | VA Average | vs. VA Avg |
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Total inspections
| 7 | 14.0 | This facility has had 50% fewer total inspections than the Virginia average (7 vs. VA avg 14). More inspections can mean more regulatory scrutiny rather than worse care.↓ 50% fewer |
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Inspections with violations
| 5 | 9.0 | This facility has 44% fewer inspections with violations than a typical Virginia assisted living residence (5 vs. VA avg 9).↓ 44% better |
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Inspection violation rate
| 71% | 58% | This facility has 13 percentage points higher inspection violation rate than a typical Virginia assisted living residence (71% vs. VA avg 58%).↑ 13% worse |
Complaints & Investigations
| This Facility | VA Average | vs. VA Avg |
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Total complaints
| 0 | 7.0 | This facility has 100% fewer total complaints than a typical Virginia assisted living residence (0 vs. VA avg 7).↓ 100% better |
What does this home offer?
Staff to Resident Ratio: 1 Staff : 4 Residents
Wade Chilcoat is the Administrator and Owner of Tilden Memory Care. As a licensed administrator, nursing aide, and Certified Dementia Practitioner, he is deeply involved in daily operations. Wade brings a heartfelt approach to senior care, inspired by cultural respect for elders he experienced abroad. His focus on consistency, transparency, and person-centered care ensures families feel their loved ones are truly supported.
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4.4 miles from city center
Estimated distance in miles from Alexandria's city center to Tilden Memory Care's address, calculated via Google Maps.
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Info below is compiled from the VA Depts. of Social Services & Health, senior community websites & trusted data sources such as Walk Score & BBB.
Communities are listed from highest-ranked to lowest-ranked based on our methodology.
Care Types in This Table
AL (Assisted Living):
Housing with help for daily activities like bathing, dressing, and medication, without 24-hour skilled nursing.
MC (Memory Care):
Secured, specialized care for people living with Alzheimer's or dementia.
RC (Respite Care):
Short-term temporary care that gives family caregivers a break.
IL (Independent Living):
Community living with dining, activities, and transportation for active seniors who need little personal care.
HOS (Hospice Care):
Comfort-focused care for those with a terminal illness, prioritizing quality of life over treatment.
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City and state of the facility. Used for mapping and state-average comparisons.
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Licensed bed capacity (maximum allowed). Not the same as how many beds are currently filled.
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Indicates whether residents are allowed to have pets in the facility.
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Third-party neighborhood walkability score (0–100). Convenience/context metric, not a healthcare quality measure.
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Description of bed or unit types offered (e.g. assisted living, memory care), as reported in state or facility disclosures.
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A named contact for the facility. Hover the name to see their role — Administrator (state administrator of record or facility-provided administrator), Nursing Director, Medical Director, or Staff. The most authoritative available is shown.
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Reported or derived occupancy for the facility—typically how fully licensed capacity is utilized. Compare across peers in the same market.
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Better Business Bureau grade for the operating company. Reflects complaint handling and business practices, not clinical care quality.
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A 0–100 score of a facility's regulatory inspection record, shown as a letter and compared with other facilities of the same kind in the same state. This is a proprietary Assisted Living Magazine grade. It is not a government rating. A dash means we have no inspection data for that facility.
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Count of regulatory inspections in the reporting window. Higher volume can reflect more oversight visits, complaint-driven surveys, or routine licensure cycles.
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Share of inspections that resulted in violations, expressed as a percentage of total inspections in the window.
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Regulatory visits tied to complaints or allegations in the state file—not the same as every routine survey.
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Total count of violations (cited regulatory issues) recorded in the selected reporting period. Read alongside inspection counts for context.
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The average number of violations this facility receives each time it's inspected, calculated as total violations ÷ total inspections. A lower number suggests more consistent compliance with safety and care standards.
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| The Fountains at Washington House | AL IL MC | Alexandria (Alexandria West) | 177
Facility
177
VA AVG
94
Rank
#16 / 311 | Yes |
66
Facility
66
VA AVG
45
Rank
#61 / 336 | Studio / 1 bed / 2 bed | Christina Bernstein |
48.6%
Facility
48.6%
VA AVG
70.6%
Rank
#208 / 238 | A+ | B+ | 7 | 43%
Facility
43%
VA AVG
57.7%
Rank
#76 / 303 | 1
Facility
1
VA AVG
7
Rank
#68 / 303 | 12
Facility
12
VA AVG
32
Rank
#63 / 246 | 1.7
Facility
1.7
VA AVG
2.3
Rank
#88 / 246 |
| Benchmark at Alexandria | AL MC RC | Alexandria (Alexandria West) | 134
Facility
134
VA AVG
94
Rank
#53 / 311 | Yes |
81
Facility
81
VA AVG
45
Rank
#33 / 336 | Studio / 1 Bed / 2 Bed | Carol Tarlowoh |
67.2%
Facility
67.2%
VA AVG
70.6%
Rank
#153 / 238 | A | C+ | 10 | 90%
Facility
90%
VA AVG
57.7%
Rank
#76 / 303 | 2
Facility
2
VA AVG
7
Rank
#105 / 303 | 25
Facility
25
VA AVG
32
Rank
#118 / 246 | 2.5
Facility
2.5
VA AVG
2.3
Rank
#142 / 246 |
| Sunrise of Alexandria | AL HOS MC | Alexandria (Seminary Hill) | 110
Facility
110
VA AVG
94
Rank
#86 / 311 | Yes |
62
Facility
62
VA AVG
45
Rank
#80 / 336 | Studio / 1 Bed / 2 Bed | Arin Burrell-Duru |
69.1%
Facility
69.1%
VA AVG
70.6%
Rank
#146 / 238 | A- | A | 9 | 33%
Facility
33%
VA AVG
57.7%
Rank
#76 / 303 | 3
Facility
3
VA AVG
7
Rank
#139 / 303 | 11
Facility
11
VA AVG
32
Rank
#57 / 246 | 1.2
Facility
1.2
VA AVG
2.3
Rank
#82 / 246 |
| Silverado Alexandria Memory Care Community | AL MC RC | Alexandria (Rosemont) | 88
Facility
88
VA AVG
94
Rank
#156 / 311 | Yes |
21
Facility
21
VA AVG
45
Rank
#271 / 336 | Private Rooms | Megan Fritz |
78.4%
Facility
78.4%
VA AVG
70.6%
Rank
#92 / 238 | - | A+ | 8 | 50%
Facility
50%
VA AVG
57.7%
Rank
#76 / 303 | 0
Facility
0
VA AVG
7
Rank
#1 / 303 | 7
Facility
7
VA AVG
32
Rank
#43 / 246 | 0.9
Facility
0.9
VA AVG
2.3
Rank
#67 / 246 |
| Tilden Memory Care | AL MC RC | Alexandria | 8
Facility
8
VA AVG
94
Rank
#293 / 311 | No |
66
Facility
66
VA AVG
45
Rank
#61 / 336 | Private Rooms | Wade Chilcoat |
75.0%
Facility
75.0%
VA AVG
70.6%
Rank
#113 / 238 | - | C | 7 | 71%
Facility
71%
VA AVG
57.7%
Rank
#76 / 303 | 0
Facility
0
VA AVG
7
Rank
#1 / 303 | 24
Facility
24
VA AVG
32
Rank
#127 / 246 | 3.4
Facility
3.4
VA AVG
2.3
Rank
#149 / 246 |
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Financial Assistance for
Assisted Living in Virginia
Tilden Memory Care is located in Alexandria, Virginia.
Here are the financial assistance programs available to residents in Virginia.
Frequently Asked Questions about Tilden Memory Care
Is Tilden Memory Care in a walkable area?
Tilden Memory Care has a walk score of 66. Somewhat walkable. Some errands can be accomplished on foot, with a mix of nearby amenities.
What is the occupancy rate at Tilden Memory Care?
Tilden Memory Care's occupancy is 75%.
Are pets allowed at Tilden Memory Care?
No, Tilden Memory Care has a no-pet policy.
Who is the administrator of Tilden Memory Care?
Wade Chilcoat is the administrator of Tilden Memory Care.
How many beds does Tilden Memory Care have?
Tilden Memory Care has 8 beds.
Has Tilden Memory Care had any violations?
Tilden Memory Care has had 24 reported violations according to records from Virginia Department of Social Services (VDSS).
Are there photos of Tilden Memory Care?
Yes — there are 22 photos of Tilden Memory Care in the photo gallery on this page.
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