Tilden Memory Care

Memory Care in Alexandria

Overview of Tilden Memory Care

Setting the benchmark for dementia care, Tilden Memory Care sets an exemplary standard in Alexandria. Renowned for their dedication to providing a personalized and attentive approach, this community stands out with its boutique-style living that fosters a sense of community and engagement. Emphasizing resident safety, the facility employs innovative wearable technology to ensure a secure environment, complemented by a team of highly trained caregivers who bring comfort and companionship to the forefront. Within this haven, residents find themselves enveloped in luxurious rooms adorned with private bathrooms, accompanied by dedicated on-site care staff.

Tilden Memory Care specializes in dementia care, possessing an intimate understanding of the complexities involved. This comprehensive refuge, extending its embrace to families as well, instills trust with its all-inclusive approach. Radiating a neighborly warmth combined with utmost professionalism, Tilden Memory Care stands as a beacon of reassurance and comfort for those seeking specialized dementia care.

(571) 556-9339

Managed by Wade Chilcoat

Administrator & Owner

Wade Chilcoat is the Administrator and Owner of Tilden Memory Care. As a licensed administrator, nursing aide, and Certified Dementia Practitioner, he is deeply involved in daily operations. Wade brings a heartfelt approach to senior care, inspired by cultural respect for elders he experienced abroad. His focus on consistency, transparency, and person-centered care ensures families feel their loved ones are truly supported.

Bed community size
8-bed community
A smaller, more intimate setting that may offer a quieter environment and closer staff-resident interactions.
Walk Score
Walk Score: 66 / 100
Moderately walkable. Some errands can be accomplished on foot, with a mix of nearby amenities.

About this community

Occupancy

Occupancy rate
63%
Lower than the Virginia average: 85.7%
Occupied beds
5 / 8
Average residents 98 per day

License Details

Facility TypeAssisted Living Facility
StatusActive
ExpirationJune 30, 2026
QualificationResidential and Assisted Living Care | Non-Ambulatory

Ownership & Operating Entity

Tilden Memory Care is administrated by Wade Chilcoat.

Safety & Compliance

Wheelchair Accessible

Payment & Insurance

2 services
Doesn't Accept Medicaid
Doesn't Accept Medicare

Therapy & Rehabilitation

1 service
Respite Care

Staffing & Medical

3 services
Licensed Nurses/CNAs
24-Hour Staffing
Staff-to-Resident Ratio: 4:1

Contact Information

Business Hours12:00 a.m. - 11:59 p.m., Sunday to Saturday 24 hours a day

What does this home offer?

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Total Residents: 8 Residents

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Housing Options: Private Rooms

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Staff to Resident Ratio: 1 Staff : 4 Residents

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Building Type: Single-story

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Dining Services

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Housekeeping Services

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Recreational Activities

Types of Care at Tilden Memory Care

Memory Care Assisted Living

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Inspection History

In Virginia, the Department of Social Services (for assisted living facilities) and the Department of Health (for nursing homes) perform the inspections required to maintain state and federal licensing.

5 inspections Info Inspections are mandatory, regular evaluations conducted by state health departments or regulatory agencies. They ensure the community provides safe, compliant care, covering areas like resident health, staff and management.

3 inspections with violations (60%)

Virginia average: 14 inspections

Virginia average: 64.3% of inspections with violations

Latest inspection

Date April 25, 2025
Renewal

Inspection oversight

Inspector name:Nina Wilson

16 deficiencies

Deficiencies indicate regulatory issues. A higher number implies the facility had several areas requiring improvement.

Virginia average: 32 deficiencies

3.2 deficiencies per inspection

Virginia average: 2.3 deficiencies per inspection

Inspection Report Summary for Tilden Memory Care

The most recent inspection on April 25, 2025, identified multiple deficiencies related to documentation, staff certifications, emergency preparedness, staffing plans, and resident discharge procedures. Earlier inspections showed a mixed pattern, with some reports noting issues such as failure to report major incidents, incomplete medication follow-up, fire safety inspection lapses, and missing staff tuberculosis screenings, while two inspections found no deficiencies. The main themes across citations involved administrative documentation, staff qualifications, emergency planning, and care planning processes. Complaint investigations were not listed in the available reports. The inspection history suggests ongoing challenges with regulatory compliance, with no clear trend of consistent improvement or worsening over time.

Financial Assistance for
Memory Care in Virginia

Tilden Memory Care is located in Alexandria, Virginia.
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Commonwealth Coordinated Care Plus (CCC Plus)

VA Medicaid CCC Plus

Age 65+ or disabled
General Virginia resident, Medicaid-eligible, nursing home-level care need.
Income Limits (2025) ~$2,829/month 300% FBR, individual
Asset Limits $2,000 (individual), $3,000 (couple).
VA

Managed care model; high demand in urban areas.

Benefits
Personal care (5-7 hours/day) Respite (240 hours/year) Adult day care ($65/day) Home modifications ($1,500 avg.)

Virginia Respite Care Grant Program

VA Respite Grant

Age Caregiver of someone 60+
General Virginia resident.
Income Limits ~$2,500/month individual, varies
Asset Limits $40,000 individual
VA

Limited grants; rural/urban balance.

Benefits
In-home respite (up to 30 days/year) Adult day care (~$65/day) Facility respite (up to 5 days)

Adult Services Program

Virginia Adult Services (AS)

Age 60+ (or disabled 18+)
General VA resident, need significant care (2+ ADLs), not Medicaid-eligible.
Income Limits (2025) Varies by locality; typically < ~$2,510/month 200% FPL
Asset Limits Limited assets (excludes home, car); varies by DSS.
VA

Serves ~5,000 annually; focuses on low-income independence.

Benefits
Personal care (4-6 hours/week) Adult day care (~$60/day) Chore services Assessments Respite (~5 days/year)

Auxiliary Grant Program

Virginia Auxiliary Grant (AG)

Age 65+ (or disabled 18+)
General VA resident, living in approved ALF/foster care, SSI-eligible or low-income.
Income Limits (2025) ~$1,041/month (individual, SSI level + $20 disregard); higher with medical deductions.
Asset Limits $2,000 individual
VA

Serves 4,000; personal needs allowance ($90/month).

Benefits
Cash (~$1,400-$1,700/month in 2025, varies by region) for ALF/foster care costs; basic care included

Medicare Savings Program (MSP)

Virginia Medicare Savings Program

Age 65+ or disabled
General VA resident, Medicare Part A/B.
Income Limits (2025) ~$2,510/month (QMB), ~$3,380/month (SLMB), ~$3,598/month (QI)—individual.
Asset Limits $9,430 (individual), $14,130 (couple).
VA

Includes Extra Help for Part D; no waitlist.

Benefits
Covers Part B premiums ($174.70/month) Deductibles ($240/year) Copays (~20%)

Energy Assistance Program (EAP)

Virginia Energy Assistance Program

Age 60+ prioritized
General VA resident, low-income household.
Income Limits (2025) ~$3,970/month 185% FPL
Asset Limits Not assessed.
VA

Fuel, Crisis, Cooling components; serves ~100,000 households.

Benefits
Heating/cooling aid ($300-$1,000/season) Crisis aid ($500 max) Equipment repair (~$250)

Senior Community Service Employment Program (SCSEP)

Virginia SCSEP

Age 55+
General unemployed, low-income, VA resident.
Income Limits (2025) ~$1,983/month 125% FPL
Asset Limits Not specified.
VA

Priority for veterans, rural residents; AARP/Goodwill partnership.

Benefits
Paid training (~20 hours/week at ~$7.25/hour) Job placement

VA Aid and Attendance (A&A) and Housebound Benefits

Virginia VA Aid and Attendance/Housebound

Age 65+ or disabled veteran/spouse
General VA resident, wartime service, ADL help (A&A) or homebound.
Income Limits (2025) Net income < ~$1,984/month (veteran with dependent, A&A); pension offsets income.
Asset Limits ~$155,356 net worth
VA

High veteran population; supports rural/urban needs.

Benefits
Cash (~$1,433-$2,642/month veteran, ~$951-$1,318 spouse) for care costs

Property Tax Relief for the Elderly and Disabled

Virginia Property Tax Relief

Age 65+ or disabled
General VA resident, homeowner, income/asset limits vary by locality.
Income Limits (2025) ~$50,000-$75,000/year household, e.g., Fairfax: $72,000; Richmond: $50,000
Asset Limits Varies e.g., Fairfax: $400,000 net worth; Richmond: $100,000
VA

Offered in 90% of localities; saves ~$500-$2,000/year.

Benefits
Tax exemption/deferral (~$500-$2,000/year depending on locality)

Senior Farmers’ Market Nutrition Program (SFMNP)

Virginia SFMNP

Age 60+
General VA resident, low-income.
Income Limits (2025) ~$2,322/month 185% FPL
Asset Limits Not assessed.
VA

Vouchers (~$50-$75/season); serves ~15,000 via AAAs.

Benefits
Vouchers (~$50-$75/season) for produce at farmers’ markets

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Address 5.9 miles from city center Info Estimated distance in miles from Alexandria's city center to Tilden Memory Care's address, calculated via Google Maps. — 0.48 miles to nearest hospital (Inova Mount Vernon Hospital Pathology)

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Penalties and fines

Federal penalties imposed by CMS for regulatory violations, including civil money penalties (fines) and denials of payment for new Medicare/Medicaid admissions.

Source: CMS Penalties Database

Penalty History

Penalties are imposed by CMS for violations of federal nursing home regulations.

No penalties in the past 3 years

No civil money penalties or payment denials were reported in the last 3 years.

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